“Why are so many couples divorcing?” – Berla Mund
Ghanaian media personality, Berla Mundi has sort of revealed her inherent phobia for marriage which may be why she’s single at age 33.
The TV3 presenter has always maintained that she would get married at the right time and would never rush into any relationship or union under duress.
At the start of this year, Berla Mundi tweeted that one of her wishes for herself is to find genuine love…love that is devoid of malice, betrayal and heartbreaks.
On the back of that, Berla Mundi has posed a question that subtly reveals her gamophobia (a fear of relationship commitment. This may be due to past relationship trauma or witnessing a negative experience of marriage in your past).
She asked her fans the obvious question: Why are so many couples divorcing? What’s wrong.
Why are so many couples divorcing? What’s wrong? ???
— B.You by Berla Mundi (@berlamundi) January 13, 2022
Although she received quite some answers, Berla Mundi begged the question of why marriages are breaking apart at an alarming rate. The rate of divorce, according to available data, has reached a record high.
This is a clear reason for fear and hesitation for someone like Berla Mundi who does not want to make a mistake when it came to choosing a life-long partner.
The fear factor for Berla Mundi is whether it would work or end abruptly like many others.
@iamsweetybae wrote: Many people also don’t painstakingly take their time to know the person they want to live forever with. This not to say you have to date someone for 10 yrs but rather when dating, ask the right questions. Communicate. When you see something that doesn’t sit.
@yaknuelgh wrote: People nowadays especially we the youth underestimate marriage. Marriage is not a playground at all. We meet someone,we fall in love with person and think that oooh this person is eligible to be my wife or my husband. WHO TOLONTO YOU BY MISTAKE??
@Benmenstruth wrote: Paul emphasized, “To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife – 1 Corinthians 7:10-11.”
@Deebrezzant wrote: Abi you people say you dey follow the West. That’s what happens there. Marriage nor dey last for there..especially first marriages.